Have you ever lived with regrets because you didn't ask a question because of fear what others may think of you, wanted to talk to someone, but chicken out? Or always wanted to try something different but again that stinking thinking got in the way. I call it stinking because those smelly thoughts kept me from doing, expressing myself, and at times locked in relationships because of fear. I had to change the way I thought about myself. I would pray, and chant, and remember what I accomplished, even list the good things about me. "I matter and what I say, think and do for myself and others, Matter!!!
I am not saying what is said, how it is said, and the intent of your words shouldn't matter. Those same things mentioned can define your character. The same as staying silent when you see another slandered or hurt. Your voice is your option, but don't avoid using it based solely on fear what another think of you. You have to decide on who and what matters to you
